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Keeping a Collaborative Mindset During Divorce

Divorce can be emotionally overwhelming and expensive. Maintaining a collaboration mindset can give both parties the opportunity to resolve the issues presented without a lengthy court process. People who need help with making a fresh start can contact Chicago family law attorney Angela Larimer at 773-370-0600.

Remember to Check Your Emotions at the Door

Emotions can often run high during a divorce. It is important to stay focused on your goals and to avoid allowing emotions to distract. Feeling angry or wanting to retaliate are normal experiences which can overshadow your decisions. If you are feeling overwhelmed, don’t be afraid to seek therapy to cope with these emotions.

Settlement Can Be Better

Working towards an amicable agreement outside of court allows the litigants the opportunity to make his or her own decisions. Taking the matter before the Court allows the judge to make the decisions about your finances, children and division of assets and liabilities. When it comes to your children, you’re likely the best judge for their well-being. Take the time needed to reflect on your child(ren)’s future, their needs and overall wellbeing.

What is a Collaborative Divorce? A Collaborative Divorce is a legal divorce process that gives couples the opportunity to negotiate all of their terms of a divorce from start to finish and avoid the Court making the decisions. Fighting in Court can quickly escalate and become very costly. Where some attorney’s relish this opportunity to fight, the litigants are often at the losing end of this process as the emotional and financial costs to do so can be astronomical. Finding an attorney who strives for amicable resolutions where possible can be imperative to helping you reach your goals.

Collaboration vs Litigation

Collaboration may not be a method used for all couples and there is nothing wrong with that. It is up to each individual couple to decide how they would like to proceed with his or her own family law matter. Regardless of which direction to take, one thing is clear… it is important to maintain a collaboration mindset and go into any family law legal matter. This mindset allows the parties to keep their goals and priorities in check, prevents lengthy trials and permits both parties to move on with their respected lives in a way that makes them feel more at peace with their process and the end result.

For more information on this topic:

Contact Angela Larimer at 773-370-0600. Additional resources are below:

Heinig, Melissa, Esq. (2019) How Does Collaborative Divorce Work and Is It Right for You?

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Equitable Mediation, Collaborative Divorce vs Mediation

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Dr. Kristin Davin (2019) How To Control Your Emotions During Mediation Or Divorce Court

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