5 Common Family Law Myths That Can Hurt Your Case

Family law is one of the most misunderstood areas of the legal system. Much of what people “know” comes from stories, advice from friends or outdated assumptions that don’t reflect how the courts actually work today.

At Larimer Law, we spend a lot of time correcting the same myths — because believing the wrong information can delay action, weaken your case or create unnecessary stress.

Let’s clear a few of them up.

Myth #1: Mothers Automatically Get Custody

This is one of the most common misconceptions we hear.

Custody decisions are not based on gender. Courts focus on the best interests of the child, which includes factors like stability, involvement, communication and the ability to meet the child’s needs.

We regularly work with both mothers and fathers who are surprised to learn that custody outcomes depend on facts, not assumptions.

Myth #2: Assets Are Always Split 50/50

Many people believe divorce automatically means an equal split of everything. That’s not always the case.

Asset division depends on several factors, including how and when assets were acquired, financial contributions and the overall circumstances of the marriage. Every situation is different, which is why early guidance matters.

Myth #3: Verbal Agreements Are Enforceable

Unfortunately, they usually aren’t.

Clients often tell us, “We agreed verbally,” only to find out later that the agreement doesn’t hold up in court. Without proper documentation and court approval, verbal agreements offer little protection if the situation changes.

If it’s not legally formalized, it’s vulnerable.

Myth #4: Waiting Will Make Things Better

Many people delay taking action because they hope conflict will settle on its own. In reality, waiting often makes matters more complicated.

Delays can affect custody schedules, financial arrangements, communication patterns and court timelines. The earlier you understand your options, the more control you maintain over the outcome.

Myth #5: Friendly Cases Don’t Need Legal Protection

Even amicable situations need structure.

We’ve seen many “friendly” cases become difficult when expectations weren’t clearly defined or documented. Having legal guidance doesn’t mean you expect conflict — it means you’re protecting yourself and your family if circumstances change.

Get the Right Information Early

Believing these myths can cost you time, stability and peace of mind. The best way to protect yourself is by getting accurate information tailored to your specific situation.

If you have questions or want clarity about your rights and options, request a free consultation by calling (773) 902-0200 or emailing Angela at angela@larimerlawllc.com.

A short conversation can make a significant difference.

Larimer Law LLC